Residency allows these cycles the space to finally begin breaking!
It allows space pushed on them now that the boundaries are in place and supported as you push back.
It allows alllll the stories come to surface.
We get to explore how folks want to move forward with and in spite of "up until now" stories.

 

We’ve seen it on repeat.  
 

Day Three of the retreat is the magic.  

It’s where things get uncomfortable.

It’s where the truth tears are shed.

It’s where the actual breakthroughs begin and as a part of that process the old narratives and gremlins charge to the surface and are politely reminded that they no longer drive the bus.

In the retreat model, that’s where we are slung back into the day to day. 

There’s no shame in that game.  Real life is important and beautiful.  We need to bring it our truth tears and breakthroughs to break cycles and create those one degree shifts that lead to radical change.

AND
In a Residency, there is a spaciousness and community in which to sit in the uncomfortable and process even more deeply.  

To speak even more gently to those narratives and gremlins.  

To make good, solid, lengthy eye contact with them.
To thank them for their service in keeping you upright up until now.
To let them know that we’ve got this and they can rest.
 

The Residency allows space to build the foundation on which to stand in your power.
The power you’ve created in that radical shift one degree at a time.